It is not that difficult to fall in for anyone or make relationships but to recover from the loss of relationship is really very difficult, specifically when you wanted to keep up that relation. It is never easy to heal broken heart from a relationship loss.
People may say to move on and forget the past in such situation “but how” is the biggest question. Here I may help you recover from an emotional loss psychologically.
- Accept the Truth
Yes, that’s very important that you must go through the grief of whatever had happened and accept it. Avoiding the pain is not going to benefit you instead just accept whatever had happened. Moving on will not be possible until you accept what is gone is gone. The more you will cling to old memories, longer the pain of loss and recovery will be.
- Decide to Move On
The next thing to do is to decide that you have no other choice than to move on. Psychologically if you spend long time with a person, you tend to obscure self-concept and when the relationship is lost, you get confused of your self-image. In such situation you have only one option and that’s to move on. Make new relationship or routine. Open us yourself to new you and newness in the world.
- Smile can change your world
Though you are sad from inside, try to bring on smile in expression, this will improvise your mood and will actually make you happy. This is called facial feedback hypothesis when your facial expressions change the way your brain is thinking and can actually help in controlling your emotions.
- Exercise will help
Yes, working out is a really best option if you ask me. Exercise will not improve your physical fitness but will get you relief of your grief. Psychologically, the work-out will help you stabilize your brain’s emotional chemicals and the nerve cells will start to grow faster, thus making you your own boss. Additionally, you gotta see new people in the gym.
- Don’t be hasty
You will have to give yourself time before you make any new relationship. It is usual that when you are trying to come over any grief or loss you tend to choose the things that attracts your mind and in most of the cases you make wrong decision.
And don’t forget to love anyone, gone is the past and everyone is not same, your world doesn’t over with the end a relationship. So don’t allow grief to prolong, involve yourself in more productive activities and take out time for yourself.